Pets are amazing companions, and they have a special ability to connect with us on an emotional level. However, it’s important to remember that even though they can tune into our feelings and what we’re saying, they might only catch part of our thoughts. For instance, when you're planning your day, your dog or cat might sense your excitement or stress, but if they tune in halfway through your conversation with yourself, they may not understand the full picture. If you’re thinking about going for a walk, they might only pick up on your positive emotions about that idea but miss out on the details about when or where you’re going. This means they could start to get excited about something that isn’t really happening yet or feel anxious if they sense you are stressed but don’t understand what’s causing it.
When you step out of your home, whether for work, errands, or any other reason, it’s important to communicate with your pets. Many pet owners may think their animals don’t understand, but pets are very intuitive and can sense your emotions and intentions. Before you leave, take a moment to talk to your pets in a calming tone. Let them know you’re going to work and when you expect to be back home. They may not grasp every word, but they can pick up on the feelings and images you project. Show them your positive energy and reassure them that they will not be alone for long. This simple act can help reduce their anxiety, making the transition easier for both you and your furry friends. If your pets see you leave calmly and hear your reassuring words, they are more likely to feel secure and patient while you’re gone. Additionally, having a consistent goodbye routine can help them understand that this is simply part of your day. So, remember that giving your pets this little bit of attention and kindness goes a long way in helping them feel comfortable and loved, even when you are not around.
I find it best to forget that they are 'pets' and speak to them like they are children because it creates a deeper bond and understanding. When I talk to my dogs or cats as if they can understand every word, I notice a difference in their behaviour. Just like children, they seem to pick up on the tone of my voice and my feelings. When I explain what we are doing, whether it’s going for a walk or leaving the house, they appear more at ease and calm. It’s as if they feel included in the family activities and know what to expect. This kind of communication helps them feel secure. When they have all the information, they're less likely to feel anxious or confused about their surroundings. It’s also a way to show them love and respect, treating them as important members of our family. For instance, when I tell my dog it's dinner time or explain the reason we're going to the vet, it helps to ease their nerves. They may not understand every word, but they sense my intentions. This approach not only strengthens our relationship but also makes our time together more enjoyable for both of us.
Photo Credit: Leanne Simpkin
(New Zealand Lost Pet Register Manager)
Nicole Elizabeth.

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